Still My Grandma

By Véronique Van den Abeele

The one where a little girl's grandma gets Alzheimer's, and she learns that loving her doesn't stop, it just changes shape.

Camille and her grandma do everything together: sleepovers, baking chocolate cupcakes, shopping trips, and giggling over old photographs. Then grandma starts to forget. First Camille's name, then where her shoes go, then the little rituals the two of them have always shared. Camille's parents explain that grandma is sick, but not the kind where you cough and blow your nose. It's called Alzheimer's, and it's why grandma does strange and puzzling things now. When grandma has to leave her own home and move somewhere nurses can care for her, Camille is heartbroken. But little by little she works out that the things that made them them, the songs and the cuddles and the being close, can still happen, just in new ways. Grandma is different now. She's still Camille's grandma.

This is the one that says the actual word, Alzheimer's, and walks the actual road, the forgetting, the move to a care home, the grief of it, all while keeping a small child's hand the whole way. For a family living exactly this, it's a mirror. For a family bracing for it, it's a gentle rehearsal of the hardest parts before they arrive.